12.1.12

Hey that's already in my cabinet

I love when I stumble upon a recipe and I can say "Hey that's already in my cabinet".
To be fair, there are a lot of random spices in my cabinet.
A) I like to eat.
B) I like to cook.
C) I like to try new foods/recipes/ingredients.
So I have a jar of star anise that I have no clue when I'll completely consume, but they're there when I need them.

Here's a recipe I ran across the other day and had all the ingredients already. Well mostly. I substituted ground cardamom for cardamom pods, fenugreek for ground fennel, and pork loin for pork shoulder. I didn't scrape the spices off and I crockpotted it instead. It was still delicious. And I finally got to use the star anise, that I forgot what I bought for in the first place.

Slow-Cooked Pork with Spanish Paprika and Sweet Spices Recipe



Serves 6

The meat has a smooth texture and distinct taste, and the slow cooking process allows the spice mixture to add intense flavor. Serve with sautéed garlicky greens, stewed white beans, or simple mashed potatoes.

Ingredients:

2 bay leaves
8 cardamom pods
2 star anise
2 teaspoons coriander seeds
1 teaspoon cumin seeds, toasted
1 1/2 teaspoons ground fennel
1/4 cup extra-virgin olive oil
1 tablespoon pimentón (smoked Spanish paprika)
2 teaspoons freshly ground black pepper
5 cloves garlic, minced into a paste
2 tablespoons brown sugar
1 tablespoon coarse salt
1 fresh 3-pound pork shoulder, preferably with the skin on

Directions

1. In a coffee grinder, process the bay leaves, cardamom, and star anise until finely ground (you may have to grind in batches) and place in a small bowl. Grind the coriander and cumin until finely ground and add to the bowl; add the ground fennel to the bowl of spices as well. Mix in the olive oil, pimentón, pepper, garlic, brown sugar, and salt, mixing well to create a paste.

2. If the pork has a skin on, score the skin with a sharp knife in 1/2-inch intervals. Rub the paste evenly on the meat. Cover and let sit in the refrigerator for at least four hours and preferably overnight.

3. Heat the oven to 450 degrees. Scrape off the extra spice rub, then put the pork on a rack in a large roasting pan, skin side up, and roast for 30 minutes. Cover the pan with foil, then turn the oven down to 300 degrees and cook for three hours. Add a bit of water in the bottom of the roasting pan, if there is no liquid, to keep the pork from drying out. Check after three hours; the pork should be fork-tender and very moist when done. If not, continue to cook until fork-tender.

4. If your pork has skin, slide the pan under the broiler for three to five minutes until the skin is crispy. If your pork doesn't have skin, remove it from the oven and allow it to rest for 10 minutes before slicing or pulling apart.

Under Construction

I've severely neglected this blog for a variety of reasons:
Not enough time
Time better used doing things like cooking, cleaning house, & interact with my small child.
Small child thinks the computer is for her to play "color shapes".
Thinking I have no readers (which I probably don't, but that's a moot point)
No general outline/purpose for the blog.

So I'm requesting, no I'm enacting a Do Over.
I'm re-doing it.
The way I want.
In the time I want.
For the purpose I want.

Initially I wanted to keep a bookmark/scrapbook of things I found interesting.
And that's what I'm going to do.

Timeline: Mon, Wed, Fri (yes I know it's Thursday, don't judge)
Outline: Food, Travel, Design (all with a heavy sprinkling of the Bible, c'mon now, how could you expect anything less). And random other topics, keeping it light on the politics (way too much of that in the media right now).

Do Over starting now...

28.6.11

Constantly Curious

If you know me, then you know that I'm constantly curious. It goes beyond liking to ask question; I like to learn, to dig deeper, to cull out the answer for things most other people would walk by and accept as the "obvious". On our drive home from our vacation we went from Myrtle Beach, SC to Nashville, TN, then homeward to Davenport, IA.

Spending all except the last 2 years on the East Coast, I was familiar with the states on the Eastern seaboard and westward to the Mississippi River. But I drew a blank west of the Mississippi River until California.

So in an attempt to learn my new geography, I studied the map. I noticed that the 37th parallel (approximately) is a border for VA, NC, KY, TN, MO, AR, KS, OK, CO, NM, UT, & AZ. So I asked "Why"? Why is there a very straight line drawn across our country to separate the states of the same union? Borders typically are natural geographic difficulties, such as rivers and mountain ranges.

Every once in a while you get the answer to your question in a direct manner. Two days later, I was roaming through the library and stumbled across "How the States Got Their Shapes" by Mark Stein. Fortunately someone else had a similar question and did the research to answer it.



Apparently it was a "marketable" question, so the History Channel made a show about it. I'd suggest reading the book, so if you are more curious about particular pieces of information, you can source the info. Or you can just watch the show. But at least take the test before and after, so you can chart your learning. Most importantly, stay "constantly curious". You may get a book deal or your own show, but you'll definitely get the satisfaction of learning.

5.4.11

Love Overpowers Fear; 1 John 4:18

As I made my way through the Sunday paper on Tuesday, I ran across an interview with Bethany Hamilton, who was 13 years old when she was attacked by a tiger shark while surfing and lost her left arm. But she returned to competitive surfing three months later. In 2005, she won her first national title in the 18-and-under division of the National Scholastic Surfing Association championships. Hamilton, now 21, lives in Kauai and surfs professionally.

Here's a (admittedly biased) snippet of the interview.

Q. What gave you the strength to continue surfing?

A. I believe in Jesus Christ and I believe he gave me the passion and determination to continue surfing. You fall off the horse and you get back on. I had to go for it.

Q. Who has been the greatest influence on your life?

A. There’s been a lot of people, but I would have to say my parents. They have encouraged me in my relationship with Jesus Christ and in my passion for surfing. Aside from them, I have a youth leader named Sarah Hill, who is played in the movie by Carrie Underwood. Sarah has been a friend since I was 8 or 9 years old. We all need that extra friend outside of our immediate family to talk about that extra stuff you wouldn’t normally talk to your parents about.

The movie, "Soul Surfer” which is based on Bethany's memoir, Soul Surfer: A True Story of Faith, Family, and Fighting to Get Back on the Board, opens nationwide this Friday, April 8th, 2011.



When I grow up I'm going to.....be passionate and determined.

25.3.11

The New "Old" Guard

Last night as I was gave my daughter a bath, I streamed Amel Larrieux via Pandora and thought to myself, "Where is the talent in today's musical world?"

I'm not yet old enough to say "All the kids nowadays listen to is pure garbage", but I'm getting close to it.

This morning, when I heared an intriguing tune as the backgroud to a news show, I decided to use Shazam on my EVO (see I'm not completely technologically incompetent) which immediately took me to Pandora and played this sweetness.

Talent she's got, Looks too. But an incredible work ethic is what propels this young lady. Starting with hauling that big bass wherever she and it needs to be. You can easily hear why she beat Justin Beiber at the Grammys for Best New Artist of the Year. When I grow up, I'm going to... be like her, tenacious.


19.5.10

Racism - no more?

I just finished watching "The Journey of Man". This video sums it up.



Dr.Spencer Wells's closing comment on "The Journey of Man":
"You and I, in fact everyone all over the world, we're literally African under the skin; brothers and sisters separated by a mere two thousand generations. Old-fashioned concepts of race are not only socially divisive, but scientifically wrong."


Want to participate in the Genographic Project?

18.5.10

Summer Movies

Some movies I'm going to make an attempt to see this summer. (in order of release date) Check out what else is coming out this summer.

May 7, 2010
Babies - Kate might sit thru this one. She likes watching people's faces, especially babies faces. You should see how she related to the baby on the box of diapers, whenever she sees him.

Iron Man - cause superheros ROCK!!!

May 14, 2010
Princess Kailulani - because I like history flicks.

May 27, 2010
Sex & the City 2 - This is the life.

June 4, 2010
Splice - reminiscent of Aliens and I want to test my theory of movies not being that scary an hour into it. I just can't pump adrenaline that long.

June 18, 2010
Toy Story 3 - because I LOVE BUZZ LIGHTYEAR!!!

12.5.10

Gardening Books/DVD

I love books. But I'm out of book money and shelf space, so I've fallen in love with the local library. This is what I'll be searching for on my next visit.

-The Heirloom Tomato: From Garden to Table:
Recipes, Portraits, and History of the World’s Most Beautiful Fruit
By Amy Goldman


-Rodale’s Ultimate Encyclopedia of Organic Gardening

-Gardens of the World with Audrey Hepburn

-The Rainbow People of God By Desmond TuTu

-Money in My Pocket: Anthology 1970-1995 By Dennis Brown

20.4.10

Courtesy of Pedro Almodovar


I finally go the chance to watch "Broken Embraces" this weekend. This shot is why I love Pedro. He and other good film makers take seeming mundane things (like a background landscape) and pull you in, leaving you wanting more, and wanting to be THERE!!!

There is the Vineyards in La Geria on Lanzarote in the Canary Islands of Spain off the coast of Morocco. And I can get a connecting flight from Chicago!

22.3.10

Disagreeing Disagreeably

So I try to avoid all this political mumbo jumbo, because like most Americans (whether they'd like to admit it or not) I'm not very well versed in politics. I know the bits and pieces of American history that have been exposed to me but that does not make the whole story, nor am I going to act like it does.

Everyone is yelling about healthcare reform. In particular, yelling on the floor of Congress. Case & Point #1: a GOP member then shouted at Stupak: "Baby killer!" Seriously, we've elected "these people" who act like this. If they yelled liar, then I could understand. He said he wasn't going to support the bill, then changed his mind. But is he really a baby killer? And if he was, does this behavior encourage him to agree with you or is he more inclined to resist the *unidentified accuser*.

I'm severely disappointed that this sort of behavoir occurs on the floor of Congress. I thought we elected these officials so that they can handle these matters in a professional manner on our behalf. We've assumed that they are better educated on these issues and have a working knowledge on how to sway others to work with them. I know someone knows the identity of the shouter and the fact that they're covering for this person says to me that this behavoir is acceptable in Congress.

This does NOT make me proud to be an American!

25.2.10

Eating not Reading

So remember when I decided to read about food. Because I like food. Well that turned out to be a bad idea. Fortunately I figured that out only 2 lbs. into that endeavor. Everytime I went to read about Chocolate, I craved a chocolate bar. Even giving in to Hershey's chocolate, which either they've gotten better at making chocolate or my taste buds have gotten less discriminating. So there goes my food reading for a while. But that's okay because I need to get caught up on the baby books.

8.2.10

Modernism can't buy Love

Designer Friends,
If you haven't tuned in yet, please enjoy Unhappy Hipsters!

2010 Christmas Cards



This would be an awesome christmas card.
No need to mention me in the credits, Mr.Obama.

7.2.10

Custom Haute Couture for your Feet



Llorraine Neithardt teaches a shoemaking workshop, titled “The Art of the Shoe: Bewitched, Bespoked and Bewildered.” Starting at $1,620 one can learn the intricate craft of hand-making footwear, unleashing, as Ms. Neithardt put it, “the shoe within.”



Kristina Saljanin, a recent student, hoped to recreate a much-loved pair of pumps she used to own - a vertiginous design involving a chain, gilded heels and animal prints. In so doing, she also hoped to reconnect to her younger, less-inhibited self, the one who stayed out dancing till dawn in five-inch heels.

Read the full article:
A Veritable Vision in Five-Inch Heels
By PENELOPE GREEN
Published: February 3, 2010

5.2.10

Cut the Cord

One night this week I had the joy of putting Kate to bed. Frederick usually has that nightly routine since he doesn't get to spend much time with her. But this particular evening it was my turn. Every night we bathe her @ 6:00 PM; sometimes foregoing dinner ourselves. All in the hopes that she will fall asleep closer to 7:00 PM rather than 9:00 PM. So as I rocked her in the rocking chair, she played with whatever she could get her hands on. My shirt, my chain, my arms. Kicking the spindles on the rocking chair. This may just be her wind down process but I think it's her attempt at avoiding sleep.

So rather than cradle hold, I held her chest to chest. After a little while she let out a big sigh. As her warm breath drifted across my neck, I knew she finally going to sleep. That little big sign warmed my skin and melted my heart. I then understood why my mother still calls me names like precious. It's hard to cut the cord when this little loving person depends totally on you and entrusts you with everything. I know I will encourage her to fly out of the nest when it's appropriate. Cut the cord , I will. But sever these heart strings, never.

30.1.10

It Takes A Village

They say "It takes a village to raise a child." and they were not lying. I've learned that if you feed Kate 6 oz. /feeding rather than 4 oz.; she will feed less frequently and wake less frequently at night. I learned this when she was almost four months old, which means I'd been functioning on no more than 3 consecutive hours of sleep since the day she was born (except for the 2 weeks with my in-laws, who stole her away from me so that I could sleep). I also learned from a friend that I could set her sleeping schedule according to feedings. These are things that are not "instinctive" and none of the baby books I have address them. So I kept asking while on the brink of crying out of frustration "Where is my d*mn village?"

The immediate answer was that I had moved from my village of the Raleigh seven months prior. However, I had left the village of the East Coast that I was raised in. From Boston to Miami, I have friends and family that would have been more than happy to help raise Kate. Even some folks in Cali. Nevertheless, they were hundreds miles and a few time zones away. So I did what I do know how to do: prayed. I prayed that God would show me how to be a good and godly mother as well as show me examples of that in my new community.

And God, being as AWESOME as He is, answered. First the women's bible study I've been attending on Tuesday mornings addresses this in the study of Titus 2:1, 3-5.

But as for you, teach what accords with sound doctrine. ... Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior*, not slanderers or slaves to much wine*. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled*, pure*, working at home*, kind*, and submissive* to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.

*Those of you who know me, feel free to chuckle among yourselves.*

We're also grouped with other women who are in similar stations in life. I've also bit the pride bullet and am making plans to hang out with stay-at-home parents and their kids. I've signed up for Circle of Moms on Facebook. In addition, I can always call my mother, stepmother, mother-in-law, or sisters-in-law at anytime. So I have made my own virtual village and I know they will be there for Kate and me. And that feels really good!

PS. Stumbling across "The Diary of Elisabeth Koren; 1853-1855" also helped put life in perspective. Elisabeth leaves Norway at the tender age of 21 as a new bride to Reverend Ulrik Vilhelm Koren, who was called to service in the Iowa settlements. She pens descriptions of life in this new wilderness as she crosses the Atlantic, the United States frontiers, and the emotional odyssey of being in a foreign land with a new husband and a baby on the way without a home to call her own. (All in a time when there was no Wal-Mart or Target to run to at midnight.)

So I thank God for all the Elisabeth Korens that have gone before me to make my path a little bit easier and for sharing their stories to make my heart a little bit lighter.

Forever Young

Yesterday I glanced up at Kate's closet to figure out what outfit to put on her for the day. I realized that I need to rotate out her 0-3 month clothes, and rotate in her 6-9 month clothes. I've been meaning to, but everytime I build up the motivation to do it, my heart stops me. I look at all her cute little 0-3 month outfits and realize that she'll never be able to wear them again. My baby's growing up. (sniff, sniff)

Now don't get me wrong, I'm not one of those mothers who smother and never want her kids to grow up. On the contrary, I whole-heartedly believe that I'm raising responsible, productive, contributing members of society who will be mature enough to handle whatever situations arise with calmness and confidence. Nobody wants to work for or with a big baby and no one wants a big baby on their team or project. And I, most certainly, am not dipping into my savings to bail out someone who wants to act like a big baby.

But nonetheless, the first time I saw that little person in her crib in this very big world; I got a bit emotional. Knowing one day not only would we dismantle the crib to convert it to a toddler bed. But we'd convert it to a day bed, and eventually a double bed. That would be abandoned for a twin beds that stacks and comes with a $30,000+/semester fee. I know I'm getting ahead of myself. But 5 months ago feels like yesterday. If time really goes so quickly, then I will savor "this" moment a little while longer. And I will put off packing up her baby clothes just one more day.

21.1.10

Unemployed Architect: Will Work for Fee

In today's NYTimes (Published: January 20, 2010) there's a wonderful article.
Architect, or Whatever: Out-of-Work Architects Turn to Other Skills by Kristina Shevory



Architecture 5¢: For a nickel, John Morefield would answer any architectural question.



When Natasha Case lost her job, she and her friend Freya Estreller, started a business selling homemade ice cream sandwiches, Coolhaus, in Los Angeles. Named for architects like Frank Gehry (the strawberry ice cream and sugar cookie Frank Behry) and Mies van der Rohe (the vanilla bean ice cream and chocolate chip cookie Mies Vanilla Rohe), they were an immediate hit.



Richard Chuk has been looking for any job he can find to support his wife and children. After months searching, he spent most of his time taking care of his children, studying for his architectural licensing exam and renovating his basement. This month, he began commercial truck driving school.

“It’s lost wages and lost experiences. But you have to keep positive and move forward. I look at this as an education. It opens up more doors and you never know when it’ll help you.”Mr. Chuk said.

20.1.10

Let Them Eat Cake

One of these days, when I'm able to cook/back for more than 30 minutes, I'll take on the challenge of the Chocolate Little Layer Cake. Then I'll conquer the Lemon Cheese Layer Cake and the Caramel Cake. Then I will take ove the world. Ha ha ha ha haaaaaaaa!




Adapted from Martha Meadows (pictured above)
Published: December 15, 2009

Time: 2 1/2 hours

FOR THE CAKE:
2 sticks butter, more to grease pans
2 1/2 cups sugar
1/3 cup shortening
5 eggs
2 teaspoons vanilla
5 cups cake flour
1 teaspoon salt
2 teaspoons baking soda
5 teaspoons baking powder
2 cups milk

FOR THE ICING:
5 cups of sugar
1/3 cup cocoa
1 stick butter, cut into pieces
1 15-ounce can evaporated milk
1/2 cup whole milk
2 teaspoons vanilla.


1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees. Grease three 9-inch cake pans and line with rounds of parchment or waxed paper.

2. In a mixer, cream together butter, sugar and shortening until fluffy, about 3 minutes. Beat in eggs one at a time and continue to mix on medium until eggs are well incorporated. Stir in vanilla.

3. Sift flour, then add salt, baking soda and baking powder. Sift a second time. With mixer on low, alternately add flour mixture and milk in about 4 additions, then increase speed to medium. Beat until smooth, about 4 to 5 minutes, scraping down sides of bowl.

4. Spread 3/4 cup batter in each pan. Bake 6 to 8 minutes, or until cake springs lightly when pressed with a finger. Flip cake out of pan onto paper towels or cake rack while still very warm. Repeat with second set of layers.

5. When first layers go into oven, start to make icing. Put sugar and cocoa in a deep, heavy-bottomed saucepan and mix well. Turn heat to medium-high and add butter and milks, bringing to a boil. Boil for about 4 minutes, stirring continually, careful to watch that it does not boil over. Lower heat to simmer, add vanilla and stir occasionally for another 7 to 10 minutes. If using a candy thermometer, cook to the point just before soft ball stage or about 230 degrees.

6. Begin icing first layers, still warm, when second batch is in the oven. Flip layers over so that top side faces up. Use about 4 tablespoons of icing per layer. Icing will be thin but will firm up as it cools. Stack layers, then continue icing and stacking as layers are baked.

7. When all layers are iced and stacked, glaze top and sides of cake. Contours of layers will be visible through icing. If icing hardens too much while frosting cake, set back on low heat and stir until it is spreadable.

Yield: One 12-layer cake.

PS. Here's a real throwback! Some Secrets About Cake Baking That Every Good Housewife Should Know from 1910

Put this in Your Punch Bowl


GOLD-LEAF PUNCH
(From Damon Boelte, Prime Meats)

Makes 12 drinks.

16 ounces Laird’s Applejack
8 ounces maple syrup
6 ounces lemon juice
20 ounces apple cider
3 dashes Fee Brothers bitters
1 750-milliliter bottle of Champagne or other dry sparkling white wine
1/2 apple, quartered and sliced thinly on a mandoline.

Mix ingredients together in a punch bowl. Serve over crushed ice.

19.1.10

Pursuing Art

Sometimes you come across a piece that isn't necessarily for sale, but you feel you must add it to your collection. That's how I feel about this photo. Now I have to figure out who I must pursue to get it. And what it's going to co$t me?



On Back Bay Beach, Tobago.
Photograph by Camilla Akrans (in homage to Art Kane).
Model: Arlenis Sosa.
The New York Times Style Magazine: Travel Winter 2009
Published: November 22, 2009

18.1.10

Recommeded Reading

I've decided that I should rekindle my love of reading. Reading books in particular. Sure I read magazines and newspapers, but books require a commitment. If you've ever been trapped by a boring, dry read you become a little gun shy. So I'm only reading things that come highly recommended. Like "A Million Miles in a Thousand Years by Donald Miller" recommended by my high school pal, Chuck.


In the meanwhile, I still need to find books to read. So I figured I'd read about stuff I like. I like food. (Kyle, you feel me?) Let's read about food. So I decided to read "Not Becoming My Mother: And Other Things She Taught Me Along the Way" by Ruth Reichl, my favorite food editor of the now defunct Gourmet Magazine. It's a good book about looking at parents as people instead of just as parents but not enough food info. It left me hungry for more. Sorry Ruth but I'll just watch you on Diary of a Foodie and Adventures with Ruth for now.



I've just started "Chocolate: A Bittersweet Saga of Dark & Light" by Mart Rosenblum. It starts with this quote:
Nine out of every ten persons say they love chocolate. The tenth lies. -Anthelme Brillat-Savarin
It seems promising. I'll let you know how it goes. But in the meanwhile, it's making me hungry for chocolate. And not just the high-faluting stuff (Vosges) but the plain jane (Cadbury) bars will do. It also has me questioning whether I can really make chocolate on my own. You might get homemade chocolate bars from me next Christmas.

5.1.10

In Today's News

Curtis Allina, The Pez Head Guy Dies


How often do you pray when flying the friendly skies? You might want to make it one of your New Year's resolutions. Especially after reading "When the Pilot Pulls Out the Flashlight"

Recession, what Recession?
Burdened by debt and a devastating real estate crash, Dubai is doing what it does best: doubling down.

"Break"fast

So as I was wrapping up the end of my last post I heard "pop, pop". It took about two seconds for me to realize that I had put 3 eggs on the stove to boil before I started typing. "Oh shit, they're about to explode!"

I ran to the kitchen, grabbed the pot as carefully as I could, struggled to open the sliding glass door to the snow-covered porch, and placed this extremely hot 1.5 qt saucepan in the snow; hoping that the scorched eggs inside would NOT explode the cover open and into my face. Frantically I shoveled snow onto and into the pot to cool it down. With a frozen hand, I retreated back into the kitchen.



I realized I lost any hope of protein with breakfast and accepted defeat yet again with another bowl of oatmeal with soy milk. Except I then realized that I had only about 1/3 cup of soy milk left and would have to supplement with cow's milk. "Great, Kate's gonna be up with gas and pooping all night again." So I proceeded to make my oatmeal: 1 cup old fashioned oats, pinch of ground nutmeg, a heavy sprinkle of cinnamon, 2 tbsp of brown sugar, 1+ cup of milk, a handful of raisin; microwave on high for 6 minutes.

Right as I sit down to eat my oatmeal, I hear Kate over the monitor. (She never lets me eat alone.)

Kate, happier then a pig in...

Just another beautiful day in the neighborhood!

PS. In our time of mother/daughter bonding, we got to watch Episode 8:The Tamarind School, Laos of "Adventures with Ruth". Mental note: Must buy lemongrass plant this spring.

Just Not Ready Yet

So shoot me for averaging one post every two months. Being a stay-at-home mom and trying to be selfish with my time is consuming all the time I have. Talk to me when you've walked a mile in my shoes. Anyhow, we are gathered here today to heed the warning of those that have tread the path before us.

Jan 4, 2009 approx 6:00 pm. Fred gets home after stopping at the grocery store for diapers and a few other staples. I would have gone myself but it was a high of 12 degrees. He brings home rice cereal for the baby.

Here's the logic: Kate is 4 months old today. Babies start solids between 4-6 months. Kate chews regurgitated curdled milk from spit-up. Kate sleeps in 3+ hour chunks at night, which makes her parents get up frequently over the course of her 12 hours of solid sleep.

Hypothesis: If we feed Kate rice cereal, she will sleep longer and so will we. She's obviously ready for solids per the chewing action.

Experiment: After a much needed bath (gastrointestinal issues) we give Kate 1 tsp. of rice cereal in 2 oz. of breast milk, which she gulps down and immediately falls asleep @ 7:00 pm.

Observation: Parents do touchdown dance once baby is asleep, eat dinner, clean up, check email, try to get to bed quickly before baby's first waking.

8:30 PM - Kate is awake, feed her more breast milk thinking she'll go back to sleep shortly afterward. (This was only fuel for the fire) Kate is awake & wants to play!
Kate plays, coos, talks, kicks, etc until 10:30 pm.

1:00 AM - Kate drinks approx 3 oz of breast milk; back asleep.

4:00 AM - Kate drinks approx 2 oz of breast milk; back asleep.
4:10 AM - Kate making noise; pick her, up she falls asleep on my shoulder instantaneously.
4:15 AM - Kate is awake again, Fred rocks her while I'm pumping.

5:15ish AM- Kate awake & gassy, doesn't want milk, lay in guest bed while Kate kicks me (this is her idea of fun interaction)
5:30 AM - Fred takes Kate downstairs to watch him eat breakfast & so I can get some sleep.
5:45 AM - Kate back upstairs with me, breastfeed until we both fall asleep

7:30 AM - Put Kate back in her crib, go back to bed. (In my head: Thank God, now I can get some sleep)

8:23 AM - Kate awake; put her on Fred's side of the bed so she can play, look at the ceiling fan, stare at her hands, while I attempt to rest.

8:30 AM - Kate grunting, passing gas, pooping. Take Kate to changing table, realize poop has leaked out of diaper legs, now being soaked up by footed pajamas.





8:50 AM - Give Kate another bath because her poop is all over her, her clothes, & her changing table.
Lotion & dress Kate. Feed Kate 4 oz of breast milk, all while she's upset but can't figure out what she's upset about. Finally I figure out she's tired and rock her to sleep.

9:17 AM - Kate asleep in crib.


Conclusion: I don't believe Kate is ready for cereal as evidenced by the gastrointestinal issues that plagued her & us all night long as well as the huge poop that exhausted her and me. I guess we just have to go back to solely breast milk and waking up every 3+ hours. It couldn't be any worse than the alternative that we witnessed last night.

PS You're probably thinking that I should go take a nap now, but I'm officially awake now. Cup of coffee you say? No thanks, Kate doesn't need any caffeine in her breast milk. Oatmeal with soy milk it is. Cheers!

4.10.09

Friday was a Good Day!

So this motherhood thing has presented me with a small identity crisis. Although pregnancy gives you 40 weeks to transition; that's an identity-morphing experience within itself. Prime example, one day you have a waist and feet, then another day you look/feel like a Macy's Thanksgiving Parade Day balloon. But nothing prepares you for the head-on-collision of the first few weeks of motherhood. We can go into that after I've finished with my therapist, Dr. Jack Daniels.

My self-perception included things like being a professional, wearing cute but high heels, a thick hipped fashionista whose toes were always done if she was gonna have them out. Enter pregnancy. The thick hips were subdued by the thickening waist. The high heels were never practical but even less so due to the shift in the center of gravity and then completely obliterated by the half-size increase of the foot itself. (Do you know how hard it is to find a 10 1/2 shoe?) And the professional thing wilted with being laid off in Feb., then withered as my waist grew larger than my networking circle in my new home state of Iowa. It's all bit much to handle.

Then came Friday! 4 weeks postpartum, I noticed things like I'm dipping below my pre-pregnany weight(screw Jenny Craig, breastfeeding is the best diet). So I decided to try on my pre-pregnancy jeans. Hallelujah, they fit in all the right places. Hhhmm, that's part of what got me pregnant to begin with. Let's try the shoes. They're a lil snug, but then again they always were. Never stopped me before. Lastly,I was able to slide on the wedding & engagement ring. WooHoo, I'm rocking my rocks.

NikJames is back!!!

28.8.09

Healthcare Reform Bill

So everyone and their momma has been raising a big stink about the Healthcare Reform Bill. "It's gonna raise the deficit by $3 billion, it's gonna ration out health care to old people, it's going to allow doctors to kill old people, it's gonna cost me more, etc." I'm sure you heard it all. But have you read it? Remember reading? It's what you learned to do before writing and arithmetic. When did the media become our only source of information?

Believe nothing of what you hear, and only half of what you see.

She's back....

Okay so it's been forever since I've posted but we had some stuff going on in our world. So let's get you caught up.


11/4/08 Barack Obama wins US Presidential Election becoming the 44th President of the United States and the first African American to hold the office.(Though the latter point has since been called into question, but that's whole different discussion.)

11/22/08 Fred & I fly out to Davenport, IA to scope out our prospective new home. Fred interviews on Monday, 11/24/08.

12/25/08 Enjoy Christmas with the James family in GA.

Somewhere in here, we find out Fred got the job in Iowa.

12/30/08 Take Fred to Angus Barn for his birthday.

12/31/08 Find out we're pregnant. New Year's Eve becomes a non-alcoholic celebration.

Try to be quiet about pregnancy until

2/14/09 Happy Valentine's Day. We're pregnant! (announced to family)

4/24/09 Leave our first home to start new life in Iowa.

4/30/09 Close on new home in Iowa.

6/27/09 - 7/6/09 Vacation. Baby shower in Raleigh, Hang out on Pawley's Island, Hang out in St. Stephen's SC with the in-laws, Hang out in GA with sisters-in-law and Baby Shower. Fly home with swollen feet.

8/28/09 Enter first post on blog in over 9 months.

9/4/09 4 year anniversary (fruit)!

9/6/09 Baby James' due date (no we don't know the sex)

9/12/09 When Baby James' will probably come, cause they told me to expect to be late.
Coincidentally, in-laws fly to Iowa this day.

9/13/09 Grandparent's Day. Did you notice my in-laws show up just before Grandparent's Day? I already told them their gift this year is the baby.

Now, what did you do with your summer vacation?

21.10.08

Rock the Vote!


I'm not endorsing any particular candidate (unless you want to write-in my husband, Fred) but I highly encourage everyone to vote. Not only is it your civic duty, they'll give you free ice cream for doing so. So Rock the Vote, then go get a Rocky Road. You'll feel better for doing both.

11.9.08

10.9.08

Aloha Ohana

Below is a 3 part photo slideshow synopsis of our anniversary vacation on the island of O'ahu. All 800+ photos can bee seen at my Flickr photo site.
Oh, make sure you watch Fred shake, shake it, shake, shake it, shake it like a polaroid picture.


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15.8.08

Light Weekend Reading


If you didn't know, I'm in love with the NYTimes. I just got an email fulfilling all my fashonista dreams.


It is the stunning Fall 2008 Women’s Fashion issue of T, The New York Times Style Magazine — appearing in The Times this Sunday, August 17.

Exploring the must-have accessory, the must-shop boutique, the looks that dazzle, the ideas that provoke, entertain, enlighten and surprise.

In the meanwhile, I can be satiated w/ the Russian gymnasts. And I'm not talking about the Olympics.

5.8.08

Mansion For Sale, Cheap


$28 MILLION, UNFINISHED This 35,000-square-foot estate built on spec and still unsold is listed as having two elevators, an indoor pool and a wine cellar.

3.8.08

Hint: It’s Warm and Has a Secret

Her invention is considered by many to be a miracle. The woman: Ruth Graves Wakefield. Her contribution to the world: the chocolate chip cookie.

Want the perfect chocolate chip cookie? Follow these simple rules of thumb and the recipe.

Rule #1: Read through the recipe first.
Rule #2: Make sure all the ingredients are at room temperature.
Rule #3: Use the best-quality ingredients you can find.
Rule #4: 60% Cacoa - only use chocolate with at least 60 percent cacao content.
Rule #5: Chip:Dough Ratio - ratio of chocolate to dough of no less than 40 to 60.
Rule #6: Don’t overmix.
Rule #7: Add Salt - You can’t underestimate the importance of salt in sweet baked goods. Salt, in the dough and sprinkled on top, adds dimension that can lift even a plebian cookie.
Rule #8: Resting Rule - Let the dough rest at least 24 hours. 36 hours is best.
Rule #9: The Warm Rule - “Even a bad cookie straight from the oven has its appeal.”




Chocolate Chip Cookies
Adapted from Jacques Torres

Time: 45 minutes (for 1 6-cookie batch), plus at least 24 hours’ chilling


2 cups minus 2 tablespoons
(8 1/2 ounces) cake flour
1 2/3 cups (8 1/2 ounces) bread flour
1 1/4 teaspoons baking soda
1 1/2 teaspoons baking powder
1 1/2 teaspoons coarse salt
2 1/2 sticks (1 1/4 cups) unsalted butter
1 1/4 cups (10 ounces) light brown sugar
1 cup plus 2 tablespoons (8 ounces) granulated sugar
2 large eggs
2 teaspoons natural vanilla extract
1 1/4 pounds bittersweet chocolate disks or fèves, at least 60 percent cacao content
Sea salt.


1. Sift flours, baking soda, baking powder and salt into a bowl. Set aside.

2. Using a mixer fitted with paddle attachment, cream butter and sugars together until very light, about 5 minutes. Add eggs, one at a time, mixing well after each addition. Stir in the vanilla. Reduce speed to low, add dry ingredients and mix until just combined, 5 to 10 seconds. Drop chocolate pieces in and incorporate them without breaking them. Press plastic wrap against dough and refrigerate for 24 to 36 hours. Dough may be used in batches, and can be refrigerated for up to 72 hours.

3. When ready to bake, preheat oven to 350 degrees. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper or a nonstick baking mat. Set aside.

4. Scoop 6 3 1/2-ounce mounds of dough (the size of generous golf balls) onto baking sheet, making sure to turn horizontally any chocolate pieces that are poking up; it will make for a more attractive cookie. Sprinkle lightly with sea salt and bake until golden brown but still soft, 18 to 20 minutes. Transfer sheet to a wire rack for 10 minutes, then slip cookies onto another rack to cool a bit more. Repeat with remaining dough, or reserve dough, refrigerated, for baking remaining batches the next day. Eat warm, with a big napkin.

Yield: 1 1/2 dozen 5-inch cookies.

Is It Chilled Yet?


Bon Appetit! Super-easy super quick. Almost no need to watch the cute 1930ish movie. Click photo above if you wish to indulge.

Ultrafast Avocado Soup
Time: 10 minutes, plus chilling


About 2 cups chopped ripe avocado flesh (3 or 4 small avocados)

3 cups milk, preferably whole

Salt and cayenne pepper to taste

2 tablespoons freshly squeezed lime juice, or to taste

A handful or more of small cooked shrimp

Chopped fresh cilantro or parsley leaves.



1. Put chopped avocado in a blender. Add half the milk, a large pinch of salt and a small pinch of cayenne; process to a purée. Add remaining milk and purée, then chill for up to 6 hours if you have time (press a piece of plastic wrap to surface of soup so it does not discolor).

2. Add lime juice, taste, then adjust seasoning, if necessary. Garnish with shrimp and parsley or cilantro, and serve.

Yield: 4 servings.

31.7.08

Quote of the Day

When we are no longer able to change a situation — we are challenged to change ourselves. — Victor E. Frankl

Cool as a Cucumber



Cucumbers are cool and refreshing in a salad or spirit, like Hendrick’s Gin from Scotland. Now there is Square One Organic Cucumber Flavored Vodka, subtle and delicate, 80 proof and superb right from the freezer, or on the rocks with a cucumber spear or slice as garnish. Square One is organic, as is another new cucumber vodka, Crop, which is only 70 proof but seems slightly sweeter.

30.7.08

Quote of the Day

You can learn many things from children. How much patience you have, for instance.
— Franklin P. Jones

There are many reasons to love NY. But I love it because I see it as the greatest clarrsoom ever given to mankind. My impression was probably formed when I was a child. We lived in the Bronx and my mom would take me into the City every weekend. We'd go to the Met or the Natural History Museum, take a break at the playground in central park, then buy an armful of books from Barnes & Noble for the train ride back home. Since then NYC keeps displaying exhibits that spark my curiousity and make me travel back, even though I'm now a plane ride away.

The items/exhibits that are drawing me back are as follows (in order of earliest closing dates):
Playing the Building: An Installation by David Byrne
10 South Street, New York, NY
31 May – 24 August 2008
Open Friday, Saturday, Sunday: Noon – 6PM (Free)




MOMA: Young Architects Program 2008
July 20–October 20, 2008



Home Delivery: Fabricating the Modern Dwelling
July 20–October 20, 2008

19.6.08

What to do with a Plethora of Peaches?


Make Peach Brandy, which is what I'm currently in the process of doing. It'll take about 6 weeks to ferment then another 3 months to age. On the lighter side, you'll never fit all the ingredients in the gallon jar. So I advise you reserve some of the vodka or gin for more immediate uses. Like staying cool this summer. Another note: Use cling peaches, as opposed to freestone. (As if I knew the difference earlier than 15 minutes ago.) Save the freestones for the sangria you'll be making with the extra vodka that I mentioned.

Nik's 30th Birthday Beach Bashment

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